Let me recommend a book to read. It is â€˜God Meant It For Goodâ€™ by R.T. Kendall. It is a fresh look at the life of Joseph. I donâ€™t know that I have enjoyed a book as much as I have enjoyed this one. The chapter on forgiveness is the best I have ever seen. To erase the bitterness, we need to focus on real forgiveness.
Joseph demonstrated total forgiveness when he forgave his brothers.
1. Total forgiveness is when we protect the one we forgive. In Genesis 45:1, Joseph asked everyone to leave the room except his brothers. Why? because he did not want anyone to know what they had done to him.
2. Total forgiveness wants to make a person feel completely at ease. In Genesis 45:3, the brothers were troubledâ€¦and then Joseph asked them to come near.
3. Total forgiveness will not even allow the person to feel bad or angry with himself. In Genesis 45:4-5, Joseph says, do not be grieved or angry with yourselves.
4. Total forgiveness acknowledges that God was in charge thru the whole ordeal. â€˜God did send me before you to preserve life!â€™
5. Total forgiveness is demonstrated when we keep someoneâ€™s sin hidden from the person who means most to him or her. Joseph said, tell dad that God sent Joseph before you to Egypt to preserve life for you.
Isnâ€™t it time to totally forgiveâ€¦in light of the cross. Arenâ€™t you glad God totally forgave?